The New Housekeeper-The first episode ever is when Aunt Bee moves in to take care of Opie and Andy. Opie is not thrilled because the last housekeeper, Rose, could fish, play baseball and a lot more! Aunt Bee is a little older and can't do these things as well. Opie acts so hateful and Andy disappointed, says this gem, "And to think I was glad when you learned to talk!" Aunt Bee decides to leave, but when Opie realizes she is leaving he runs down to stop her, claiming that she needs him because she can't do ANYTHING!
I love this one because it's the first one, and it sets up so nicely the kind of father Andy is going to be in the show. He doesn't push too hard, but communicates his disappointment and it's enough. He goes on to do this throughout the rest of the series!
I love when he would throw his head back and laugh. |
Andy is rarely the one learning the lesson, but this is one of those episodes that he doesn't know best. The idea that happiness and love are defined differently by everyone is a great lesson that I think we all struggle to accept.
No wonder Ron Howard ended up being so awesome! |
Another example is Andy's great parenting! He doesn't solve Opie's problems for him, but is vulnerable enough to let him know he's not alone, and without saying so, gives him permission to solve the bully situation in any way he needs to. It's called trust I think.
So much wisdom in that smile. |
Sure, it's going a little far, but this just shows Andy's love for even the least of these. He is willing to do what he can to help Otis out.
These three! |
I love the way Andy never jumps to conclusions but lets situations play out before acting. His patience and wisdom keep him out of a lot of bad situations. This is one of those. It also shows that he really does have faith in people, which is a quality that can lead to a lot of hurt, but also a lot of happiness.
Can't beat Andy's brand of friendship. |
The relationship between Barney and Andy drives me crazy if the truth be told. I always want Andy to put Barney in his place. But this episode is ONE OF MANY where Andy never really clues Barney into the fact that he has paved the way for whatever good thing Barney is experiencing. I suppose this is true friendship, though it could be argued that a little accountability could lead Barney to make better decisions. Still, Andy is perfectly supportive and sacrificial in every way when it comes to Barney. Giving him the benefit of the doubt and standing by his side again and again.
Totally teared up reading this post. hahaha What can I say? I'm a social cryer. womp-womp
ReplyDeleteI love Aunt Bee. Her hair and aprons make me so happy.
You made me laugh with your comments on Aunt Bee! You WOULD like that about her!
DeleteIf only Andy could do for Barney what he does for Opie. What you call supportive and sacrificial, I call codependent. I love everything about this show except Andy leaving the blinders on Barney,but I'm sure that makes for better TV. I absolutely love the part where Opie rescues Aunt Bea from a life of knowing nothing. I remember crying the first time I saw it.
ReplyDeleteRomelle, you know I agree with you about the codependent! It's what drives me crazy about it!
DeleteI love the episode where Andy is teaching Opie the meaning of charity. My favorite part goes like this:
ReplyDeleteAndy: "Didn't you ever give anyone anything for the joy of giving it?"
Opie: "Uh-huh. Just yesterday I gave my friend Billy something."
Andy: "What'd you give 'im?"
Opie: "A knuckle sandwich."
Andy: "I meant charity."
Opie: "I didn't charge 'im nothin"
My family watched so much of The Andy Griffith Show growing up that we could all take parts and do a whole episode.
That's a really great one!
DeleteI was about to mention Opie's Charity. So sweet and such a message to parents about not underestimating our children.
ReplyDeletePhillip and I had a marathon when Don Knotts passed away and we started one for Andy Griffith last night.
I love that I found a mate who shares my love for the show, but the show will always take me back to my grandparents in Elba when they were happy, healthy and whole.
I love how much meaning this show has for everyone, no matter what generation!
DeleteOh, and Phillip and I totally dressed up as Barney and Thelma Lou for Halloween when we were dating:)
ReplyDeleteI also love that somewhere in my grandmother's dementia ravaged mind, she knows that she loved this show.
Do you remember that book Deathwatch we had to read in 10th grade? Andy Griffith starred in a movie based on the book and was totally the bad guy!
Are you kidding me! I have got to see that now! Wow...bringing it back...Amy, how do you remember/know EVERYTHING!
DeleteThank you foor writing this
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